Do you want to enjoy a friendly atmosphere (which is what you signed up for when you registered), or do you prefer unpleasant confrontations and altercations? How would you feel about a thousand small cuts of unkindness?

Do you want to be overwhelmed with choice at all the interesting looking threads which people have thoughtfully provided with good titles? Or do you prefer them to be hastily scrawled, incomplete, and woefully spelt and punctuated? Which is easier on the eye and makes for a nicer browsing experience?

Do you want acf to be inviting to new members? Can you see how they might be turned off if there's too much in talk?

 

Every time you post, think about what kind of forum you want.
And what kind it is.