When I was a teenager I was a cyclist.
Then I learned to play the guitar, got into partying and I was a musician.
Then I went to Uni and I was a photographer.
Then I got a job as an animator, and I was an animator.
Then I turned 30, and slowly, I became Tom.
I've recently re-discoverd serious cycling and last week I bought a new guitar.
It's like I only just realised you can do lots of different things, and enjoy them all without having to label yourself as anything in particular.