Maya Forstater:
This morning I gave a talk to the sixth form at Verulam School in St Albans. This is the second talk I have given at a school (the first one was to South Hampstead High School in London).
Honestly, these are some of the most nerve-wracking things that I have done. Where do you start telling a story about employment tribunals to children for whom this is all part of the alien world of work? And how many think I am a bigot before I even walk in?
I tell them the story of how a mum from St Albans ended up setting a legal precedent that protects everybody’s rights, about why freedom of speech and pluralism matter, and why the concept of “worthy of respect in a democratic society” is so important. Democracy is about the ability to disagree and to talk about it.
I start with JK Rowling, because they all have opinions about what she wrote on this topic, even if they haven’t read her words. Some cross their arms at my obvious wrong-think and others perk up on hearing someone saying the unsayable.
I tell them how there may well be a boy in this school, and there definitely is one in this county, who can run faster than Florence Griffith Joyner, whose 1988 women’s 100m sprint record still stands. I show them a photo of William / Lia Thomas and ask them to think about how the young women standing next to him on the podium feel at being beaten by a man after they have trained their hardest.
At both schools we had time for some lively questions. The kids asked them using language like “gender assigned at birth” and I answered about sex. They set me dilemmas about toilets and changing-rooms, prisons and sports, and looked surprised that I had answers. Adults have given them the impression that the topic is so mysterious, difficult and frightening that we cannot think through these issues, or answer in any way but with regard to gender identity.
I hope they took away the message that everything should be talked about, even if they disagreed with me. I really enjoyed talking to them.
It’s not for children to resolve these dilemmas about rules and risks. They are too young and they think in black-and-white terms of goodies and baddies, in-groups and out-groups, while already falling into the habit of discounting women’s interests.
Sex Matters has published our draft response to the DfE guidance for schools in England this week, and Stonewall has published its own. If you are a parent, teacher or school leader who is writing a response, we hope ours is helpful for you. If you talk to teachers, please share our response with them. It is the job of adults to sort this problem.
Miss Peach was a syndicated comic strip created by American cartoonist Mell Lazarus. It ran for 45 years, from February 4, 1957, to September 8, 2002... The strip was set in Kelly School, named after Pogo cartoonist Walt ["We have met the enemy and he is us"] Kelly.
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