I don't even know how you'd get any of that from what I wrote, since I said the opposite thing, that many men literally understand this and will indeed, for instance, not closely follow a woman home or expect them to engage in conversation. Of course, an unreasonable number don't.
Of course, women get to interpret their experiences as they will, to reiterate I was merely pointing out that a majority of men do understand the potential nature of their interactions with the other sex, and seek to mitigate those, even if sometimes imperfectly. Thusly, while I might be pleasantly pleased when a young woman feels she can have an ordinary conversation with me, I would be reluctant to initiate the same conversation. On some level, I suppose, it's a bit sad that we live in a society where women are forced to perceive men as a potential threat or as the holders of some unsavoury motive, but I quite understand why they do and that as fears go, is entirely rational.